Showing posts with label Empty Nest. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Empty Nest. Show all posts

Friday, January 11, 2013

Are Your Towels Level?


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“Chitty Chitty Bang Bang” was a personal favorite movie as a child.   Do you remember this scene? This is the scene where the crazy inventor, Professor Potts sings to his kids about being a family.  “You Two” is a song I’ve loved singing to our children.  Yes, we were blessed with more than two, but it is such a song of camaraderie and happiness.  It’s about being “there,” being “together,” being a “team.”

This week my team has gone.  The oldest is happy with her husband, only 45 minutes away.  Our youngest left yesterday to go on her first mission trip.  And I took our son to the airport this morning for his return flight to college.

The house is quiet.  Their bedrooms are tidy. The towels are all hanging level.  No one has asked me for anything.  Not laundry, a meal or a ride.

I know it’s a natural part of their growing up.  The reality of the quiet is deafening.

How DID I do?  What DO I do?  I’m grateful I had “You Two” to sing to our children as we danced around our home.

But today, I smile.  I’m grateful.  Grateful for what is going on with our children now.  I will never take for granted where they are now.

To you young moms, please sing with your children, dance with them, hug them, kiss them good night.  Be grateful when they ask for a meal or clean clothes.  And if the towel isn’t hanging level, straighten it yourself…and smile.

James 4: 13 – 15  “Now listen, you who say, Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.  Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow.  What is your life?  You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.  Instead, you out to say, “if it is the Lord’s will we will do this or that.”

Friday, September 21, 2012

Empty Nest...Really???


This will happen to you…

You get married.

You become a mom.

You have another, or adopt two more. However, God plans it, your family grows.

And they grow and grow some more.

You deal with diaper rash and vaccinations.  You choose schools and cry when they leave or cry if they stay home.

One moment you are tying shoes, and the next moment, you’re teaching them to drive.

And then you…

Have an empty nest??

How did this happen? I mean, I guess I considered where this was headed, but now? Really?

With one child married and another off to college, we only have one at home.

What’s a mom to do?  Where did the time go? Was I a good steward of our time?


I really want it back.  I want the time back.  I want to do a better job.  No, I really don’t want to digress to diapers and training wheels and school decisions.  I want “them” back.

My babies!!

How much more, God wants us back.  Away from the world and its entrapments. Looking only into His eyes.  Enamored by Him.  Letting Him care for us.  Giving Him control. He wants to be the center.  He deserves complete control. I think this was some of what Jesus was communicating when He told us to “Remain in Him” from John 15.

In fact even while I am physically away from Our Heavenly Father, I can practice abiding, remaining in Him.

As I sort this place in my Mommy heart with my “babies” grown and gone,  I will reveal in the fact I can choose to remain in Him, by relying on Him.  Trusting Him.  He can have me “back” all the time I choose to remain in Him.