Taken Away by Technology

Our family LOVES technology. We have the IPHONE, IPAD, MAC computer, and all the gadgets that go along with each one. Amazing apps have been created that my children absolutely love (i.e.  Easy Bake Cupcake- which my two year old has now learned how to successfully post to Facebook). Some apps are even educational and tutorial in nature which helps in having an interactive home schooling experience.

The Lord has recently pressed on my heart just how consumed my life has become with technology. How consumed our family has become with this wonderful invention and helper. One day I noticed how much it had become an idol in my life.  In my family's life. 


Definition of idol:
                  "anything that people worship as a god instead of God."


I found myself wanting to check my email and Facebook many times a day. I was investing my time into something with no eternal return/reward.  I was reading status updates of people I barely knew. I was checking my email. I was consumed. I made it an idol in my life.  I allowed it to become an idol in my family's life as well. I sat and thought of how my boys are ALWAYS enamored with going on "Daddy's IPAD" or phone to play games and had they had been sucked in by the "idol" as well. 

I stepped back and pondered what I was doing. Rushing in to check in on the computer instead of rushing in to check in with my heavenly Father. Why wasn't I spending those few moments quickly reading a verse or two. Lifting up a much-needed prayer. Doing those things that would truly help  me when I struggle through my day as a mommy.  Because I had allowed something else to take HIS place.  


I glorified you on earth, having accomplished the work that you gave me to do. - John 17:4


I don't want to miss any of the "work that you gave me to do" Lord because my eyes were focused elsewhere. Please  help me to cling to you when other things try to steal my heart and devotion. Allow me to seek your face in those few free moments I have so that I am able to glorify you here on earth. Help me to instill in my kids the value of spending even a few moments in your WORD and the impact it can have on my day. 

6 Simple Things

 
Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us. - 1 Peter 2:11-12

A few days ago my husband sent me a link to one of his favorite blogs. It was so insightful I decided to email it to my friends too, one of which encouraged me to re-post it for our readers to glean from today.

Mike Breen serves as a leader in the ministry called 3DM, which helps churches build a discipleship culture.  Today he will share with us 6 simple things we can do to balance ministry and family life. Enjoy.....

6 Simple things Sally and I did in raising our kids by Mike Breen

It never ceases to amaze me how often people ask us how we raised our kids: Beccy, Libby and Sam. As with all things, you sort of just learn as you go, right? I mean, I dropped our kids on their heads as much as any dad. ;-)

But over time, we learned to do a few things that set a certain atmosphere in our family for raising our kids that really embraced the spirit of unique, but not independent. Our motto was that we traveled as a pack. With most kids, it's about rhythm and routine and  here were a few of the things we did that our family, in reflecting on them, highlighted as some of the most important for them:

1. Special plate. Once a week we'd let the family decide who had really had the hardest week. Whoever it was, for that meal they got to have the special plate reserved for that meal.
2. Affirmation dinner. Once a week we'd each go around the table and spend time saying what we really appreciated and valued about each other. What did we admire? What did we enjoy? Like? Were impressed by?
3. Daddy's breakfast. Each Saturday, I'd take one of our kids out to breakfast and they got to choose where they wanted to go. When they were little kids, it was MacDonalds. For reasons beyond my understanding, they thought it was the coolest place in England. Fortunately, as they got a little older, it trended towards nicer places. I think one of the favorites was Cafe Rouge.
4. Two family touch points a day. No matter how early we had to get up or if we had to delay dessert, we always were around the table together for breakfast and for dinner. It was a non-negotiable. Sally and I felt it was incredibly important that we be the primary disciplers of our kids and we simply couldn't do that if we didn't have regular and consistent face time with them.
5. Public Affirmation. I would regularly say in front of whatever congregation I was leading that our family being healthy and well was my #1 priority. Yes, the church was important, but not more important than our family. Each of us have three sermons; the first is your marriage, the second is your kids and the third is what you might be giving on any given Sunday. And if those first two aren't happening, the third doesn't matter. I really felt our congregation needed to know that and be reminded of it regularly.
6. Involving them in decisions. We've moved a decent number of times over the last 30 years, and from an early age, we wanted our kids to be involved in those decisions. So when Sally and I felt the Lord was calling us to Arkansas for a few years in the early 1990's, we made sure to involve the kids in it. So we went to Libby and Beccy (Sam was barely crawling at this point) and told them there was an opportunity in Arkansas and we wanted them to pray about it and let them know what Jesus was saying to them about it. We gave them a day and when they came back, they had some of the most remarkable experiences praying and it really served as a confirmation that this was the next step for our family.

There were lots of things I'm sure we could have done better along the way, but these things really served as the kind of railings to the life of our family, the things that helped shape our kids and create the atmosphere in our house we wanted to see.

Did one of the 6 tips really tug at your heart?

How will you incorporate it into your week?

Life is short. Stay simple and remember where our home is :)